So much Drama! Geez, I appreciate facebook, I love having family and friends and reconnecting and making new friends. I love having a family to turn to daily, for prayers, for guidance, advice...etc..
I haven't made my profile private because to be honest, I didn't expect that I would need to. I'll add who I want to add and ignore those I don't.
But inevitably there are people who see this whole facebook thing as a way into my life, my business and my family and friends. It's kinda sad for them that they have to resort to my facebook to make an appearance LOL, really, my life is NOT that interesting.
Get your own life, and most importantly worry about your own life. I'm living the life I chose to live and I'm very happy in it.
If and when I talk to my friends or family rest assured it has absolutely nothing to do with you, if it did, I'd just delete them and have a real life relationship with them, which I do anyway.
I'm where I want to be. I dont need to see your face on the side of my page, I don't need your "likes" on my comments, nor do I need a friend request from you and that won't ever change in the future.
Here's how I work, in the present, right here, right now. I have a lifetime of friends that I love. Most of them are on my page. I have a lifetime of family, they too are on my page. I dont randomly search for additions to my page, if someone requests me and I want them on my page, I add them. Period. If not, I ignore.
I wish for only positive, healthy relationships in my life and refuse to have anything else. "You" are not a positive in my life and we really have nothing to say to each other, I have no desire to see your page and I wish you'd lose the desire to see mine. Not that I have anything to hide, it seems I have what I wanted, maybe you are just jealous that you couldn't get it, I dont know.
Maybe you should let go of your fears, your lack of self esteem and the loss that you willingly took and worry about who "you" are and not "who" I am.
However, to satisfy your deep, immature need to know, here goes
I'm very happily married to the love of my life, I have a great career that I love. I have a great family that I'm very close to and spend as much time as I can with. I am living the dream, yes I am.....And it's a real dream, not one made up, not one I'm just content with but the real dream. Exactly where I want to be. It's not fake, it's not made up. My husband and I fight and argue over stupid crap, we work our butts off to get what we've got, we have a plan. We didn't settle for each other, we found each other.  Our love is real and it's eternal.
I dont need to impress you, I dont even need you to know my life. I live my life for me and mine, my suggestion to you is that you settle for the life you chose and stop trying to live in mine!