Sunday, May 31, 2009

Explotation

I was watching some tv crime show tonight, the plot was charging a young girl with "sexting". What I can't figure out is why "sexting" would be a chargable crime, yet exploiting yourself online, or in magazines doesn't carry the same crime charge.
Ok, let's just go with online exploitation...How come that's ok, but doing the same thing over your phone isn't? Isn't it the exact same thing?
You can post scandolous pics of yourself online on the internet, but you can't through your phone?
Dont get me wrong, I think it's all a crime. I'm just analyzing who makes these rules.
In my day, it was all porn, if you put yourself out there in what today measures as classy, it was scandolous, it was porn plain and simple. Now society has allowed so much sexual deviousness that almost nothing is considered porn, unless you are actually doing the act.
The saddest part of this is that someone out there is trying to gain some self-esteem, self-expression, or something that is ONLY going to come back to haunt them. They think for the moment, wow I look good or maybe it gains them a little attention, but in the end it's negative attention and will, in the end, do them more damage than good.
Our judicial system is so screwed up that we are charging the wrong people....The girls that exploit themselves in that way need some serious mental help and we won't give that to them in a jail cell. The mothers should of and if they didn't, they should do something now. And if that's not going to happen, where's our judicial system working. I dont think this lies in the area of free speech, expression whatever. Whatever happened to parents and authority making people do what's right?

Hello Again....

Wow, it's been so long since I wrote....I've just been busy. Either the house, grandkids or something has kept me at bay. And I dont have that many followers so it's all good.
I really do have so much to write about and so little organization ...I hope that makes sense right now.
I've been busy with the family cookbook (which has finally gone to print), I've spent time with my husband and getting that house ready. And now I'm home again, Travis will be here next week. Next Saturday we leave for the cruise, it's a long overdue honeymoon for us but since we are going with Darrell and Sarah, it'll be even more fun. I'm excited, I can't wait to look out over the sea with the man that I love. I think this will be ONE of our best memories.
A week after we return, we have the family reunion, 9 whole days RV'ing. Travis and I haven't had much opportunity to use that RV and I'm pretty excited about that too. I'm a lake kinda person, fishing, swimming, whatever, I love how being at the lake feels.
I've had the oldest grandbabies for the last week, makes me miss being a momma all the time and grateful that mine are grown at the same time. But it's been alot of fun. It's nice waking up ad having someone there. I'm amazed at how well the kids adapt to being at Nana's all the time, only when I dont give them their way do they voice wanting to go home (LOL) Most of the day, they are fine though.
So anyway, after June I dont really know what Travis and I will do. Who knows, maybe we will go back on the road again. Construction, Oil and Gas...Life is unpredictable right now.
Just wanted to check in with everyone. Talk to you soon.