In my lifetime I guess I've experienced about every kind of love there is, I can honestly tell you that "perfect love" doesn't exist. But love eternally certainly does.
Maybe that counts for more than any other kind of love, consistency has alot to say about itself.
I've loved "truly" in my heart, loved....my husband since the day I first laid eyes on him. I was a mere 18 years old and my heart took over. We dont' have the perfect relationship, I sometimes think our children wonder what exactly it is, but someday hopefully they will also experience this "lifetime" kinda love. We can fight, we can be mad, we can be at our end, but still there's the "love". Can't just walk away, well you can, I did for 23 years, but the love dont stop. If you love someone in your life, if you truly love them, it can never ever go away. Love can't be a choice, it's not an elective you chose. It's usually against your will. True love doesn't go away, it doesn't fade. It stays FOREVER.....
If you can say I used to love him/her but I dont anymore, then you never loved. PERIOD.
To love, puts that person in your heart, and no matter what they do, no matter what happens, no matter how many years has passed, that love NEVER EVER leaves, it's like a tattoo upon your heart. Love is a permanent state.
We DO NOT have the ability to fall out of love, we fall in love, and NOTHING can take that away.
Ask that woman that hasn't seen the man she loved since she was 15 years old, yet 40 years have passed, if she cried silently in the shower the night that God called him home. Ask that man that went to his grave loving her.
What we do is move on, the heart dont stop. Life goes on (There's that ole saying) But the love never stops.
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