Who are you? Really?  Are you sure you know? Deep down?
Who were you? Who are you now?
The answer I've found is that we actually do get to decide...I love that?
It absolutely does not have to be dependent on what someone else has done, didn't do or won't do for you. It isn't about who you hang out with, what their thoughts are or what you hope they think of  you.
I love that too, becoming me was a transition, some didn't like, some did. Those that did, are still my friends and I treasure that!
I don't need to impress anyone, I DO NOT need to get on here to dog my husband, ect to get your attention. I like me, so if you like me, you'll read my words no matter what. I hold my head high and if at some point I hate my life and dont like me, I'll tell you. But what I WON'T do is dog others in my life, it's not funny, its not good writing, it's not gonna make anyone like you. You are still you and if you feel the need to put others down in your life, then you just havent decided what your life could and would be.
Stop blaming others, stop revealing their short-comings and focus at the thing on hand.....YOU!
Life will become much better and less tragic for you....The DRAMA you create is making you an idiot and you've lost all of YOU!